Love is Blind: The Next Episodes

In my Love is Blind series this far I’ve explored abusive situations in my relationships and those of my close friends. I’ve also shared my family background regarding the issue, to demonstrate the climate that I grew up in and how it shaped my perceptions of violence against women. The latter half of the series begins in the year 2002. We now turn back to the story of my close friend Raquel. It would take eight years for Raquel to finally get away from David, the man who became her abuser. In the next posts I hope to give you a sense of what it feels to be a bystander and a witness. Through my words I wish to convey what it is like watch as someone you love dearly is broken down, battered and stripped of who they are…

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A native Seattleite and recent East Coast transplant, I have been interested in politics, religion, and race from the day I saw “The Autobiography of Malcolm X” on the bookshelf belonging to my BFF’s mom back in 1991. While my zealotry has thankfully diminished with maturity, I remain the deep thinking, passionate, and humble woman I have always been. I reside in the suburbs of NYC with my husband, daughter, and our two feisty but deeply loved cats.

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